EXACTLY !!!!
I dont know how many times I have seen people complain of a "bad beat" when they were just playing bad cards and got busted!
I understand limping in with bad cards when there are 6 players in already, then you hit that 3 9 offsuit with a 3 9 6 on the flop, now your excited, you bet big, the guy with AA of course calls, Ace comes on the turn, you bet big and get reraised by the set of aces, you call thinking he paired up, 10 on the river... you think your golden and push hard, AA pushes back and puts you all in, you call and LOSE!!!
This is not a "BAD BEAT"
Yet you cry and whine and complain of a bad beat..... you limped in trying to get lucky... and it backfired!
Remember....... THE NUTS... changes from flop to turn to river.
If you cant handle a loss, then dont play the game!